READ this interesting article on how one mother balances life with having one "typical" son and one son on the Autism Spectrum.
Back to School Social Rules
By Alaina Urbantke
Three months of well-deserved rest and relaxation is par the course for busy students. But those days vanish like the summer wind, to make a Sinatra reference. In light of this, it is advisable to mix activities that exercise your child’s brain and body in the midst of lazy days. For parents of students with ASD, additional preparations must be made concerning social skills. This article will cover the essentials that will help your child maintain good social standing among teachers and peers.
As mentioned in a previous article, the storylines and scenes which revolve around characters that have Autism have the chance to connect with their audience when the research is utilized. Another way that those characters can be relatable is by the relationships that they make with their family and friends. With them, these following movies and television episodes, all of which can be streamed on Amazon Video, could be considered as additional examples of portraying people with Autism and similar special needs.
1) Lifetime’s 2004 TV film, Miracle Run, features Mary-Louise Parker as Corrine, the mother of twin boys who are diagnosed with autism, and also Zac Efron (before his break-out role in High School Musical) as Steven, one of her twins. Corrine’s love for her children, as well as her perseverance to make a good life for them, influences both Steven and his brother Phillip to pursue their own interests. When each of them encounter an obstacle-Phillip becoming nervous during his in-person audition for a music school and Steven seeing a girl he has a crush on with another boy right before he’s about to compete in a cross-country race, each of them find the courage and self-confidence to pick themselves up.
2) One of Sesame Street’s recent episodes, “Meet Julia,” introduces the title character by means presenting the friendships she has with Elmo and Abby and later gains with Big Bird. Meanwhile, Big Bird’s developing friendship with Julia incorporates a progression of understanding of Autism for Big Bird and also the intended audience with moments that reflect some of its characteristics. Those moments include Julia and her friends creating a new game called “boing tag” and Julia’s response to the loud sirens that unexpectedly appear.
A Peak under the Umbrella
By Alaina Urbantke
Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is an umbrella term used to categorize a variety of conditions, varying greatly in symptoms and levels of function. With many possible diagnoses, it is important to differentiate among the variety of disorders under its classification. The intent of this article is to examine two conditions, Asperger Syndrome and autism, in order to illuminate their characteristics.
Tips to Prepare for Summer Planning
Summer is here and for many children, it means endless ways to enjoy the summer break. For those families who have children with autism or similar special needs, making plans for the summer can appear overwhelming at first. However, the act of planning can feel more prepared by considering the following tips while placing summer plans in the process:
1) Schedule and Plan:
READ on the different hidden disabilities that are present in children and adults diagnosed with Aspergers. Gain a better understanding of their challenges and how awareness is key in helping these individuals not feel handicapped.
Corporations are taking the right steps forward in hiring individuals with autism, but keeping work is still a struggle for those on the spectrum.
READ More on how these corporations are trying to help individuals on the spectrum.
The importance of paying attention to the environment is obvious to most of us. It applies in school, work, while driving, etc. However, it is not as apparent to those with intellectual difficulties. Whether you have a child with these difficulties or not, it wouldn’t hurt to review the principles.
What’s the pulse? Don’t ignore it. What’s going on? Good day? Bad day? Good news or bad news? Serious tone discussion or jovial tones? What is the occasion? Gathering or funeral?
As previously said, those with autism and similar social-cognitive disorders are generally poor self-inherent observers, meaning they don’t realize what they do irritates others. Being inappropriate in situations is common. Much has been publicized about social thinking, but putting the application in real context remains elusive. Recognizing the implications of a situation goes a long way toward fitting in. Recall those interrupters, chatty catties and office “plops.”
Remember your oh-so-perky coworker that barged into your office to talk about that sweet movie? He or she was oblivious to your social signals. It broke your focus, and it took a while to get back into rhythm. Whether you’ve been the victim or perpetrator, heed these bad examples.
The Chatty Catty
People care but not all the time. That may sound harsh but it’s true. The art of chit-chat is very time and place appropriate. Keep personal conversations for the right time: break, lunch, out socially etc. Interrupting someone to tell them about your latest ailment, family issue, date drama, failed recipe etc. can wait. Your supervisor or co-worker might not care about such details. Remember the boundaries of friendship and the social hierarchy of work place relations. Friendly does not necessarily mean your best friend with whom you share personal details.
At Social Motion, we strive to impart essential concepts to the youth in our transition program. These are tough and uncomfortable subjects that require courageous conversations. Teaching these scenarios often requires some tough love (e.g. constructive advice). They may not come naturally, but they can be coached and taught. They serve to demystify the questions “Why don’t people like me?” or “How do I keep from getting fired?” We lead with the best intentions to transform the lives of those with social cognitive differences, a journey of constant betterment for our clients.
The Art of Interrupting
Many of our young adults struggle with the nuances of interaction and communication. The art of interrupting tops the list in difficulty and hinders good interpersonal skills in leisure and work environments.
The Harvard Business School published an article about hiring individuals with special needs. This article presents the case for hiring differently abled individuals and the challenges of doing so.
Read MORE as to why neurodiversity presents opportunities.
Gain insight on the employment related challenges adults with autism face. In this article adults on the spectrum have been interviewed and they give their thoughts, disclosures, and misconceptions people may have towards individuals with autism being able to work.
Link to article
“I’m not going in your creepy white van.”
Now that school is out and summer is here, it is important to remind our kids (especially those with special needs) about staying safe when going out. However, we are also in an age of social skills and manners.
Most kids have heard about “stranger danger” and probably wouldn’t accept a red lollipop. What if they were lured with “I have free Wi-Fi?” This issue also gets more complicated as scammers and child predators change their approaches.
May was Mom's turn to be spoiled. But now that it's almost June, we get to think about how to touch Dad's big heart. Dads are always hard to buy for, but coming up with that perfect "I love you" gift is not impossible. It just takes some thought and personalization! Dads are so important in a child's life, and every parent knows that raising a child entails more than just providing for them. It is rare to find a parent that wants recognition for being a parent, but we celebrate their dedication regardless.
Father’s Day is not just a day to buy presents; it is a day to appreciate what fathers do for their families. Fathers are the men that help you learn how to ride a bike and make sure that you never give up. Fathers will help you grow and show you what unconditional love is. Fathers are men young boys look up to everyday. They know that they must set good examples. Fathers never expect praise or grace for the job that they do. However on Father’s Day, we show our love for them. Give your father a hug and tell him how important he is to you this year. For those families without a full-time Dad, we praise Mom for doing Daddy duty, so give your mom a hug!
Usually when a father is asked what type of gift he wants, he always begrudgingly says, “Nothing Dear.” This year purchase a gift with purpose for your father. Aspire Accessories, a program of Social Motion, Inc., is a work shop where young adults with autism and similar special needs create, produce, embellish, assemble, package and ship beautiful leather accessories, crafts, home goods and laser engraved specialty products. These are just right for fathers! View the spectrum of gifts you can purchase for your father, from a leather flask to an RTIC Tumbler engraved with his initials. Whatever the desire, Aspire Accessories has you covered. Show your father that his love is undeniable, and make a purchase with a purpose!
A study by Child Trends identifies the "soft skills" most likely to help youths succeed in the job market: communication, social skills, self-control, higher-order thinking and positive self-concept (self-awareness, not just self-esteem). The problem is that "those kinds of things are not visible on the Internet" Read on .....
I found this article particularly interesting becasue we totally teach that you have to keep a "clean" image on social media. We teach that your personna on social media is important and people look at it and make value judgements. Have the kids found a way to get around the rule???
I also find it interesting that there is a need for a real and fake identities.... too bad they seem to be at opposite ends of the spectrum.
Read on ...